#20 Learn from Jesus how to rest

Read Matthew 11:25-30ย 

โ€œ28Come to me, all who labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.”

If youโ€™ve ever tried to โ€œmeasure upโ€ to someone elseโ€™s expectations for you, then youโ€™ll know how tiring it is! This weariness characterised how many people in Jesusโ€™ day were experiencing their relationship with God. Jesus pinpointed the root cause of these beliefs in the hypocrisy of the religious leaders of the day. These leaders were falsely teaching that following their rules could lead to favour from God. Rather, these rules led not to Godโ€™s rest, but wearied and burdened souls.

Even today, if the average person were asked, โ€œWhat kind of person goes to Heaven?โ€, they are most likely to respond, โ€œA good oneโ€. This expectation sounds straightforward, but it usually leads to one of two outcomes, either hiding from God or striving for God!

We may hide due to an old addiction that resurfaces, a surprise ending to a relationship or some moment of passion when our resolve to act โ€œgoodโ€ doesnโ€™t match up with the requirements that God, the government or ourselves expect. Amidst failure, โ€œhidersโ€ tend to walk away from church, prayer and sometimes even faith itself.

If youโ€™ve ever played โ€œhideโ€™nโ€™seekโ€ with a two-year-old, you may have seen them stand in a corner facing the wall with their hands over their eyes, โ€œhidingโ€! Whenever we try to โ€œhideโ€ from God, the reality is he knows exactly where we are, and what weโ€™ve done, and is probably having a little chuckle at our efforts. The good news is that Jesus, Godโ€™s son, came to find โ€œhidersโ€ and heal their hearts.

Others amongst us, full of good intentions, find ourselves striving to meet our expectations of being โ€œgood enoughโ€. We hope that unlike those around us, we will find a way to โ€œmake the cutโ€. If youโ€™ve ever run this race to be โ€œgood enoughโ€, you know that as close as you think you get, you never quite โ€œarriveโ€.

Jesus calls us away from both hiding and striving to rest. I imagine this state is like the child above who โ€œhidesโ€ in a corner. However, rather than โ€œhiding in plain sightโ€, we are to be โ€œresting in plain sightโ€ – eyes wide open, facing out, ready to be โ€˜foundโ€™ in our state of perfect rest.

Itโ€™s to both the striving and the hiding amongst us that Jesus, the Son of God and saviour of the world, gives His invitation. โ€œCome, lay down your burdens and learn from me how to rest. Iโ€™m the one youโ€™ve been looking for. Thereโ€™s no need to hide your sin from me since Iโ€™ve come to heal you. Thereโ€™s no need to earn my favour since I donโ€™t reward the morally superior. You can stop aiming to be good for me and allow me to be good towards you. Come and learn from me how to rest.โ€